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by:
Jack Crow
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All females need sexual
tension from a prospective or existing partner
to consider having or continuing to have, a
physical relationship with them. Lose this from
the start and you will become mayor of the
friend zone.
Definition of sexual tension - Cocky and funny.
A loud mouth, walking the thin line of winding
her up without overly offending her. Posing as a
challenge and not doing everything she says
without a bit of give and take.
No sexual tension = a dead relationship.
There are 4 general types of relationship.
THE FRIEND ZONE RELATIONSHIP
Familiarity without sexual tension. (Usually the
male not opening his mouth to challenge a girl
he REALLY fancies.) This leads to complacency in
that the female becomes numb to the presence of
the male (because he doesn't stimulate her
emotionally through lack of communication) and
associates him as a social partner only. This
leads to, the friend zone. The male is
permanently seen as a non sexual friend only.
Once a female has made up her mind that you are
a friend and she says the F word. It is the kiss
of death for any attraction you have for her.
You will never have a physical relationship with
her from this point onward and will spend the
rest of your time with her, hearing how she got
off with this great guy at the weekend. All the
while you're dying inside. When you eventually
tell her how you truly feel and she rejects you.
She will sit and wonder why you are not
answering the phone any more as you were a great
listener to her problems.
PURLEY PHYSICAL ATTRACTION
Purely physical attraction. After a while a lack
of sexual variety leads to complacency in both
parties. Boredom / lack of sexual tension makes
both parties become fed up with each other
quickly. This leads to a breakup of the
relationship and both parties go their separate
ways. This type of relationship can be prolonged
if both parties are willing to explore their
sexual fantasies and keep variety in the
bedroom. The long term feasibility of such a
relationship is still in question.
PHYSICAL ATTRACTION & SEXUAL TENSION
Physical attraction + sexual tension equals love
at first site. Female tries to change male to
her ideal image of a man. The male resists, lack
of conformity equals continued sexual tension
which equals a long lasting relationship viewed
as love in a love hate relationship.
PHYSICAL ATTRACTION & SEXUAL TENSION VERSION 2
Physical attraction + sexual tension equals love
at first site. Female tries to change male to
her ideal image of a man. The male conforms and
no longer poses a challenge. Female gets bored
as there's no sexual tension any more.
Relationship starts to slip. Male thinks
everything is ok as he is doing everything she
wants but in reality, she has lost all interest
in him. It is at this point that she will either
stay with him in a purely partnership
arrangement or leave him as soon as a better
male comes along that stimulates her
emotionally.
THE OVER POSSESSIVE PARTNER
The above scenarios do not take into account
over possessive partners that bully or smother
their partners to the point that they leave or
attack them. This is known in some circles as 'a
bunny boiler'. So named after the film fatal
attraction where an obsessed Glenn Close cooks
the family's pet rabbit in a revenge attack for
Michael Douglas spurning her advances after a
brief sexual relationship.
Usually over possessiveness stems from the
insecurities or lack of trust in one partner.
(They may have been hurt in the past and are
determined to not let it happen again, to the
point where it becomes an obsession.) Or they're
a total psycho, run for it!
Relationship number 4 is the most common. In
general you will see it while at the shopping
center. The husband pushes the trolley and every
time the wife speaks, it's either yes dear or no
dear. The husband has conformed to do what the
female requires in order to have a quiet life.
The female thinks she is superior, in control
and has mastered the art of man handling.
In reality she is destroying the mans animal
attraction to her. She is slowly numbing him
into an affair with someone else. Little does
she know it but as he no longer poses a
challenge to her, she is slowly becoming numb to
him. As his animal instinct is tamed and he
finds her attractive less and less, they will
suddenly, one day, find themselves in a loveless
marriage.
They will at this point be co-existing in a
purely partnership based relationship for the
sake of survival or because of children. This
has lead to relationships breaking up after 30
years of marriage and both partners wonder why
their marriage is so lifeless.
It has been described as 'the spark fizzling
out'. In reality it is the lack of sexual
tension or sexual variety. Remember, a female
thinks with her emotions and a man thinks with
his…..err….physical attraction mechanism.
If a male no longer stimulates her emotionally,
she will seek it elsewhere. Equally if a female
is no longer sexually attractive to a man, he
too will look elsewhere.
Don't get me wrong ladies, some things can't be
reversed, like aging and the passage of time,
but there are ways to grow old and still be sexy
to a male partner. A boring sex life is a recipe
for disaster and being sexy is more than a lack
of wrinkles. If in doubt, it's time to start
experimenting in the bedroom to see what pushes
his and your buttons. Explore each others sexual
fantasies and do things you only dream about at
night while your partner is asleep. You'll be
surprised how quickly your relationship bounces
back as a result.
If you have any sense you will heed my warning
weather you are male or female, married or just
starting a relationship. Try to keep the sexual
tension alive between the two of you. If not,
you will be on the next train to dumpsville
wondering why he or she slept with someone else.
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About the author:
Jack Crow is a freelance writer and part time
webmaster. When he's not building web sites he's
checking out new dating sites that appear on the
net.
To see what he thinks of them visit:
http://www.sexy-american-singles.com
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