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A little advice on relationshipe on how to get him or
her to talk to you. If you are looking for advice about
how to get him or her to talke to you you have come to
the right place, let's have a look at what Caroline
Therancy as to say about the matter. read her advice
below.
This
is a common concern in our society for single people of
any age; how to make contact with someone that we like
on a soft matter without being forward. The truth of the
matter is that we have the opportunity to meet that
special person everyday; at the bus station, at the
grocery store, at church, at a class, at the gym, at the
coffee shop, at the library.
1. Eye contact
There has to be a little game of eye contact. He looks
at you. You look at him. You look away. You look again.
He looks at you again. You smile. He smiles back. And so
on...
And Men, you keep your eyes on her until she looks
back.... and maybe, smiles. Then, approach her and
introduce conversation. The easiest way is to say :" Hi!
My name is _______. What is yours?" And say something
nice about her. Something about her hair, something
about the color that she is wearing, or the make up.
Whatever you find nice and feminine about her
appearance.
Later on, VERY IMPORTANT, say something nice about HER
personality. Not on a physical level, but on a mental
level. Is she intelligent? Did you notice that she is
sweet? Did you notice that she how strong her values
are? Do like that? Well then, go ahead and say it. The
impact is worth the effort
2. Smile. It's the simplest way to have eye contact
softly.
Not many people do this and this transforms that way we
are perceived. I saw once on TV. a report on some kind
of monkey in the African jungle; two males were fighting
to get a female and to stop the fight, one had to show
his teeth to the other one. For us human, smiling can
have an emotional impact that could lead to dramatic
effects on our lives.
Exercise: Smile to at least 5 strangers everyday, even
if the person is not attractive to you. Be careful not
to look as if you were "simple of mind". Just like a
glance, a brief smile by looking in the eye and let go.
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