1.
Show the Guy That You Are Vulnerable
Men need to feel needed, yes it may be from the
dinosaurs but it does still apply. I do not mean
that you have to be weak, give in to whatever he
wants, and put up with any way he treats you I am
not suggesting that. Many men like strong women, but
strong women who put out that they do not need a guy
often end up alone. It is fine to be strong but try
and temper it with "ok here is a situation where I
can be vulnerable". Men have a strong protective
instinct, though
they may rarely show it.
2. Let The Guy Think That He Is Doing The Hunting
Men love the thrill of the chase, it is in their
genetic makeup, it is definately a male thing. Play
a little secretive and hard to get, and men will
flock like bees to honey.
That means having a sense of your own worth, men
hate women who are clingy. They are not props, they
hate boosting a womens ego all the time. In fact men
want a real balanced person. Make him feel he wants
to make the first move and do the chasing. Women
learn to manipulate men at a very early age. By the
age of five most girls have learnt how to wrap their
father around there little finger.
3. "Let The Guy Think That He Is Mr Right Rather
Than Mr Right Now!"
Stroke their egos, they are not a ticket to go out
and pay all the time, let them know that you really
value them as a person.
4. Laugh At His Jokes
This is imperative that a man feels he is funny and
witty and is an extension of three, they are valued
for their sense of humour. Where would we be in life
without
laughter.
5. Never Call Him After The First During The Next
Week
If a guy is interested in seeing you again, trust me
he will call you in the first week. He will do this
even if he says he has to go out of town. If you
call him, you come
across as over-anxious. You appear desperate, and
are more likely to scare the guy off. It is OK to
ask him out the first time but not the second.
6. If You Are Dating Online Get A Professional Photo
Taken At A Studio
When dating online you have to market yourself to be
successful. A professional photographer will know
how to get the best shots out of you and make you
look your very best.
7.Don't Go Out With Your Girlfriends In Large Groups
Some men feel that approaching a women in a large
group is intimidating. Go out in smaller groups, and
make it easier for an interested guy to approach
you.
8. Approach Him
Be confidant enough to approach him and ask him if
he wants to go for a coffee. If you're not sure
whether he is gay or not, then approach him anyway.
If he gives you the brush-over then you have lost
nothing, but you can pat yourself on the back for
taking the initiative, most men will be flattered by
this.
9. You Like Him But He Is Ignoring You
Guys are insecure, and they want to feel liked, and
popular. Start ignoring him for a while, not rudely,
you don't have to make an issue out of it. Just look
right through him, and he will start to be piqued.
There is no guarantee here he may not take it any
further, it may just boost his confidance, but you
have not lost anything
10. Don't Appear To Be Desperate
Desperation is a real turn off for men. It is an
indicator that a woman is going to start to get
clingy, and that is not good. Appear yourself and
show a friendly interest.
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